I work by my business, follow my companies policies and procedures and I am progressional. Go ahead blame me. Yea I am kicking some ass selling and I am making money. Do I feel bad that you are failing? Honestly, no because you are not working your business. That does not make me a bad person. If you had been working your business then I would feel bad. But from what I have seen you are not working it. What you do when I am not around is another story and not my business. But if it was working your business then you'd be a success.
Guess what it takes hard work. GASP!! Yes, hard work. Don't gasp and look like things come free. If they did we'd all be rich and have an island.